What is the place of emotions in worship? Should worship be an emotional experience? Can we trust our emotions?
Questions such as these have caused considerable debate. The worship styles at different churches run the gamut from somber, highly structured liturgical services to the wild frenzy of some Pentecostal services to the carefully choreographed “worship experience” of some seeker driven churches. Some worship services leave you exhausted from the sheer overflow of emotion while others barely register a pulse. Is it just a matter of personal preference, or does the Bible provide some guidance as to the proper place of emotions in worship? What sort of worship service is pleasing to God?
Emotions are an essential part of life
God created us as emotional beings. So part of loving God with our whole heart, soul, mind, and strength (Mk. 12:29-30) must include our emotions. In fact, emotions are an important part of any relationship. If a husband and wife had nothing more than a cold, intellectual love for one another we would rightly conclude that their marriage was not very healthy. If the husband said, “I have chosen to love you and I am committed to you, but I don’t have any particular feelings for you,” do you think that the wife would be satisfied? Would she even consider that love at all? Would God be satisfied with a merely intellectual love?
The Bible is filled with the expression of emotion toward God. Consider the strong emotions expressed in these Psalms:
“As the deer pants for the water brooks, So my soul pants for You, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God; When shall I come and appear before God?” (Psalm 42:1-2)
“How lovely are Thy dwelling places, O Lord of hosts! My soul longed and even yearned for the courts of the Lord; My heart and my flesh sing for joy to the living God.” (Psalm 84:1-2)
In fact the Psalms are overflowing with emotion, including everything from ecstatic praise to mournful lament. David and the other writers of the Psalms got very emotional in their relationship with God.
Worship is a celebration
In the Old Testament there are seven national feasts and only one national fast. (Actually it is a bit more complicated than that, since some feasts were not instituted until after the exile, but this is the overall picture.) Considering the ratio between feasts and fasts, it would seem that God is in favor of celebration. Their worship included not only singing and playing instruments, but also shouting for joy (Ps. 98:4; Ps. 100:1) and even dancing (2 Sam. 6:14; Ps. 149:3).
Indeed we have much to celebrate. Worship is all about praising God for who He is and what He has done. From the glimpses that the Bible gives us into heaven we discover that the main activity there is worship. Joy is the language of heaven. In our relationship with God there is certainly a place for pouring out our sorrows before Him, yet in the Psalms even the laments often turn to praise in the end. In heaven our sorrows will be swallowed up by joy, and worship is a foretaste of heaven.
Emotion in worship needs balance
Most of us have a fear of being controlled by our emotions because we realize that our emotions can mislead us. Worship is not based on feelings, but on truth. We worship God because He is Worthy. We worship Him regardless of how we feel. We worship Him because He deserves it, not because it makes us feel a certain way. If you are worshipping God because you just love that “worshipful” feeling then you are worshipping for the wrong reason.
But cold, unfeeling worship is just as bad. Worship devoid of feeling is not somehow more “pure” or spiritual. In fact it is less so. How can we stand and speak or sing of God’s greatness and His amazing love, and feel nothing? How can we not respond to His love by loving Him in return (1 Jn. 4:19)? Our worship needs to have a proper emotional response to God.
Hindrances to whole hearted worship
What are some of the hindrances to worshipping God with all that we are? How can we move beyond cold, dull, repetitive worship?
First you must meet the “prerequisites” for worship.
- In order to truly worship God, you must have a relationship with Him. Christian worship is not worship from a distance, but from within a relationship.
- In order to truly worship God you must be willing to bow down to Him in adoration and submission. It is impossible to worship God while you are in rebellion against Him.
- In order to truly worship God you must come to Him for cleansing for sin. Just as the priests needed to wash themselves before serving in the temple, we need to confess our sins and ask for God’s cleansing. (It’s free—Jesus already paid for it!)
Once you have met the prerequisites for worship you can learn to worship God with your whole heart.
- Meditate deeply on the truth about God from Scripture. Then allow yourself to respond to His love with your feelings as well as your thoughts.
- If you are an “emotionally repressed” person learn to embrace your feelings as an essential part of how God made you.
- If you are a person who is easily excited be sure that you are not seeking an emotional high instead of genuinely worshipping God.
- Don’t worry about what others may think if you show a little enthusiasm in your worship. If you are self-conscious in your worship it shows that your focus is on yourself instead of God.